"Over the years, I saw that our own beliefs, fears, and habitual reactions to life limit our joy much more than any spouse, boss, or devastating life experience.
I started teaching my clients to carry two questions with them in their daily lives:
?Am I feeling joy now?
If not, how am I holding my joy away?'
I walked into each therapy session and workshop with the goal of helping people reconnect with the essential joy in their core.
Over time, my three-step approach evolved:
1) say yes to what is; 2) witness your thoughts, feelings, and reactions; and 3) respond differently, with kindness and compassion.
By seeing our old habits clearly and by taking full responsibility for how we respond, we become able to hold all of life's gifts in joy."???????????????~ Carolyn Hobbs"Joy, No Matter What" (Conari Press, March 2005) shows that joy is not something "out there," only available to a select few born with emotional silver spoons in their mouths.
We all have joy at our core, and no mater what is going on in our lives, we can uncover our innate joy and bring it into the light of our everyday lives.
Carolyn Hobbs has worked with thousands of people in individual and couples' therapy, workshops, and graduate courses.
She has helped people to face depression and anxiety, handle chronic pain and life-threatening diseases, overcome addictions, cope with life transformations ? and still find their joy in the midst of whatever life throws their way.Hobbs offers brief essays on everyday situations and habits we all fall into ? mind, fear, feeling, and belief habits ? with information on what they truly are, and exercises that help us to change them."Joy, No Matter What" helps you to be the joy you want to see in the world.Carolyn Hobbs is a licensed marriage and family therapist, and a member of the Association for Transpersonal Psychology and the Association for Humanistic Psychology.
She has taught at Naropa Institute and Spirit Rock Meditation Center..
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If you have been diagnosed with depression or feel that you are dealing with depression on a daily basis, you may feel that depression is consuming your life. You worry about everything. You don't want to do anything. The things that used to make you happy, well, they just don't seem important anymore. You need to realize that depression is a serious condition and that without the assistance of a doctor, depression just won't go away.But, you can learn to deal with the effects of depression within your daily life.
Yes, it is hard. Yes, it would be much easier to try and forget about it all. But, if you ever want to be happy again, you'll want to find a way out of your black hole. In order to deal with depression on a daily basis, you may have to force yourself to do things that you do not enjoy doing anymore. You may have to surround yourself with people and places that are positive.
You may have to seek out a therapist to talk to about your depression.No one said that...
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Changing history, picking fights, demeaning or controlling others may be a loved one's reactions to everyday life.
But those behaviors can also form a pattern that spells bipolar disorder.
And if they do, how can that loved one's family help?
That's the premise of a new book, 70 Signs of Depression: Recognize and Cope With Your Loved One's Clinical or Manic Depression, just released by Communications Strategies, a Newport Beach, California-based publisher.Best selling ghostwriter-turned-author, Marlee Fisher, sets tragedy on its ear in this new book by digging deep into bipolar-induced behaviors to give those who are dealing with a bipolar victim, the proactive tools that they need to cope with, and co-manage, this physiological illness.Acclaimed by the medical and mental health communities as a page-turning must-read for anyone with a bipolar spouse, family member or friend, 70 Signs of Depression reveals firsthand insights and knowledge from thousands of...
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Depression is something every writer I've known faces. When you sit at your desk staring at the blank page you think of a million things, hardly any of which belong to the story your're trying to write. Did I pay the gas bill? Will they shut me off today? Was my daughter's recital this Friday or next? Did I forget to feed the dogs? Soon, these thoughts turn into: What am I doing at this desk? I'll never make it as a writer. God! Two rejections in one week! This must be hell because nothing can be as bad as this. Why do we write? Why do we sit down for hours all alone, just thinking and imagining? Most writers just want to be heard.
We are observant, intelligent, and gifted people who want our voices, our words on the page. To be read, remembered, recognized, but mostly we love the written word. We love to read. As a kid, I read anything and everything. From Tolkien to H.P.
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Intuitive Soul Coaching Provides Unique Tool in Treatment and Recovery from Anxiety and Depression
Atlanta, GA (ContentDesk) March 13, 2006 -- The World Health Organization indicates that by the year 2020, the number of people suffering from depression will be second only to chronic heart disease as the most acute health problem in the nation.
This creates a vast social as well as financial predicament for everyone concerned.
Most commercial medications may have ghastly side effects, including suicidal tendencies.
Dr. Reggie Johnson, an Intuitive Soul Coach, utilizes specific revelatory guidance for the recovering person to help them create their own sacred course of action to heal the mind, body and spirit.
It is not your religion, but your relationship with the Creator that heals.
It starts with healing the heart which needs encouragement to believe in its possibilities again, says Dr. Reggie.Intuitive Soul Coaching is used by phone to assist recovering patients with specific techniques for revitalization of the whole person toward regaining...
Depression
INTRODUCTIONIn any given year about 18.8 million American adults, suffer from a depressive illness. The economic cost for this disorder is US $40 billion per year, but the cost in human suffering cannot be estimated. Depressive illnesses often interfere with normal functioning and cause pain and suffering not only to those who have a disorder, but also to those who care about them. Serious depression can destroy family life as well as the life of the ill person. But much of this suffering is unnecessary.
Most people with a depressive illness do not seek treatment because they do not recognize that depression is a treatable illness. WHAT IS DEPRESSION?Depressive is a mental illness that involves the body, mood and thoughts. It affects the way a person eats and sleeps, the way one feels about oneself, and the way one thinks about things. Depression is not the same as a passing blue mood nor is a sign of personal weakness.TYPES OF DEPRESSIONDepressive manifest itself in different...
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5 Ways To Help A Depressed Loved One
Copyright 2006 Christopher Green
When a person is suffering the torment of a stressful, depressive or anxious episode, it can be so hard for loved ones and friends to connect with them. For the sufferer, the torment can be exacerbated because no one understands what they're going through.
Here's 5 ways you can develop understanding so you can reach a loved one.
1. A common reaction to a sufferer is: "Oh, come on, you'll be OK, it's all in the mind." Although stress, depression and anxiety have their roots in thought, there are many other symptoms involved. Severe headache, back pain, muscle pain, exhaustion, palpitations, hypertension, shaking, loss of appetite, loss of sex drive and loss of interest in previously enjoyable activities to name several. There are many other symptoms and it's also important to understand that no sufferer experiences the same symptoms.
E.g. One may develop severe back pain another may develop headaches. As you...
5 Ways To Help A Depressed Loved One
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